I have done a few speeches around my community for different clubs/organizations to share with them what I call "my six point story". It typically involves:
1. I was born in Yaroslavl Russia. I was adopted at the age three from a small orphanage full of children who needed medical care.
2. During my 10 year anniversary with my adopted family I visited Russia for the first time in 2006. While I was in Russia, I visited my orphanage. I did not have any memories of the place but I was told I was the first child to ever return and visit.
3. In 2010 I wanted to find my my brothers (2) so I searched with the help of a man, my parents and my orphanage. I found my brothers and I found my birth father (which was a great surprise because I was first informed he was dead) and I found my birth mothers grave. In 2010, I went to Russia to meet my family for the first time. I t was a great experience that only lasted a week.
4. I revisit Russia again and learn that my brother Igor has TB and it is located in his spine. I watch his struggles but aim to be his greatest supporter through his hard days.
5. In the start of the year, I get the news that my brother Igor has died while at work. He has succumbed to his illness. In May during the winter snow, I fly over to visit his wooden cross at his grave site. It was a heart breaking moment for me to have just found him and then to have to immediately lose him.
6. 2013 visit to Russia- I often took a taxi throughout the city of Yaroslavl and found myself at my brothers grave. I even went to see my birth mothers place of rest. & When I was in the orphanage as a small child, I loved my Teacher Leah. I always thought of her as a mother figure and could not forget her as I got older. In the summer of 2013 I found her in her home and we spent the day together before I walked with her to visit my orphanage again. She was very happy I had not forgotten her.
My story is in the opinion section of the Moscow Times Newspaper where I wrote a letter to the editor.
1. I was born in Yaroslavl Russia. I was adopted at the age three from a small orphanage full of children who needed medical care.
2. During my 10 year anniversary with my adopted family I visited Russia for the first time in 2006. While I was in Russia, I visited my orphanage. I did not have any memories of the place but I was told I was the first child to ever return and visit.
3. In 2010 I wanted to find my my brothers (2) so I searched with the help of a man, my parents and my orphanage. I found my brothers and I found my birth father (which was a great surprise because I was first informed he was dead) and I found my birth mothers grave. In 2010, I went to Russia to meet my family for the first time. I t was a great experience that only lasted a week.
4. I revisit Russia again and learn that my brother Igor has TB and it is located in his spine. I watch his struggles but aim to be his greatest supporter through his hard days.
5. In the start of the year, I get the news that my brother Igor has died while at work. He has succumbed to his illness. In May during the winter snow, I fly over to visit his wooden cross at his grave site. It was a heart breaking moment for me to have just found him and then to have to immediately lose him.
6. 2013 visit to Russia- I often took a taxi throughout the city of Yaroslavl and found myself at my brothers grave. I even went to see my birth mothers place of rest. & When I was in the orphanage as a small child, I loved my Teacher Leah. I always thought of her as a mother figure and could not forget her as I got older. In the summer of 2013 I found her in her home and we spent the day together before I walked with her to visit my orphanage again. She was very happy I had not forgotten her.
My story is in the opinion section of the Moscow Times Newspaper where I wrote a letter to the editor.